I also like the softer ride but along with that comes with the front end diving while cornering so i have mine about in the middle, still testing.
I run 5 psi in the rear and 6 in the front, the lower tire pressure in the rear=better traction. Tire pressure depends on the type of riding you do also, going fast over rocky trails you'll want more pressure so you don't blow out a side wall or crack a rim, where as mud or snow you'll want a lower pressure.
Hope this helps